i told my mum about my ex(s). haha. no la, only weiyang. the rest didn't say. i can't believe i told her!!! and i think my dad knows cuz i think he MUST'VE BEEN LISTENING from the living room!
actually we were just discussing about relationships and boyfriends. haha. i told them i will not be having the intention of getting one any time soon. my mum especially was telling me all those things to avoid such as sex... married men... blah blah blah. u don't really have to know. they are just the usual lectures parents give to their kids.
but what surprised me the most was that she suggested that if i have a bf, i can bring him home to meet them. LIKE, WHAAAAT?? really didn't expect to hear that. i've always thought that they will only let me date when i am a rotting old woman. haha.
they said that they would want to have a son-in-law who can make me happy, support me till we crumple hand-in-hand and can mix around well especially with my relatives and family members. so i told them not to worry cuz i only like intelligent guys. haha. i don't know why but well educated, intelligent and english speaking guys seems VERY attractive to me. hoho.
if u ask me what kinda guy i am attracted to, i guess i can't really tell. because as time pass, i meet different kinds of people, the expectations in the opposite sex changes once or twice.
like, i've always love guys who can play the piano/drums/guitar. or can sing. but i guess now i like guys who can dance. or draw. or into poems and literature or arts. AND PHOTOGRAPHY.
someone who is sporty. not all muscle packed [PLEASE NOO] but toned would be nice. who has a smile which can melt my heart and brighten my day. a pair of eyes for me to sink into. can ride the bicycle and fetch me home. a personality which can blend in well with my friends and love ones so it will not always be just me and him, him and i. we can go for family gatherings or hang out with my friends. i wouldn't mind mixing with his friends and love ones too. someone who is around 2-5 years older. a height made easy to lean on his shoulder. very comfortable to be with him. can make me laugh. tanned? and yes. BRAINS too. haha
but then again, i'll never know. i might end up liking someone who doesn't meet everything and i'll still love him with all my heart.
yupyup. but not going to think about it in the near future.