[music : infatuation-christina.A]After speaking to Joel on the phone last night. i come to realise lots of things.like the actual difference between a winner and a loser.no, i don't mean as in maybe in a race, or a game. where the winner is praised and looked up to and the loser get criticized and humiliated. what i meant is the way how we deal with life.everyone can be a winner or a loser, am i right? i'll just get the message through with this short phrase Joel taught me. A loser doesn't know what he will do if he loses but talks about what he'll do if he wins.BUT a winner will NEVER talk about what he'll do if he wins. But he knows what to do when he loses.get the drift? everyone is a winner. but its the matter on how he deals with things when he falls. i realised that in our lifes, well, mostly in my life, we have many WHAT IFs. eg. what if i did this, i would have won. what if i didn't do that, things will not be like the way it is now. when u lose, u feel at lost. u'll feel like its the end of the word. in short, the word is "Pessimist".but a winner, on the other hand, knows what he'll do if he falls. he is not scared of failure as he knows how to climb back up. its like he has a backing to cushion his fall. so yeah, the word is "Optimist".another quote he taught me. just that i changed the words a little. haha.'When u feel hopeless as though u can't handle anything, don't control what u are unable to reach out to but recognize what u can control and work on it.''The past makes a better person for the future.' - a phrase for Wei Ying. Cheer up girl. =)Quick Replies!Jeric : hey dude. i don't know what happened between u and hazel and i bet its damn minuet cuz she didn't breathe a single word about u. but seriously, grow up & somehow try to understand that its little boys like u that make girls seek solace in other females. sometimes if u've got nothing nice to say, keep it to urself cuz its really pathetically childish and selfish.Hazel ! : erm. its referring to u-know-who. i hate to admit this but i miss him. but he has changed that i hardly know him and he isn't bothered so.. i'm not going to beat myself up for him anymore.kenny ! : haha. good for u! i heard its really good cuz bryan just bought that phone too. haha.Joel ! : hahaha. well, then haunt me all u want. i'm going to move forward a million steps and i'm not going to look back. yup.Jun Kai : haha. take good care of her ah. =)Michael ! : u seriously bought it?! oh my. haha. thanks a lot. X)!addie : u wouldn't lose him if u get ur mind cleared alright? good luck! i'm sure there's no one else in his heart except for u.jess ! : erm. okok, i go i go. know what? i think i'm damn mean la.but cuz of that incident, very awkward lei. i duno lei. i think i'll stand behind u guys. lol.joanh : haha. yeah yeah! i remembered. haha. see ya in next sunday's service!anonymous : well, ok then.Wen Long : haha. thanks then. =)Can't hold us down -Christina.ASo, what, am I not supposed to have an opinion?
Should I keep quiet just because I'm a woman?
Call me a bitch cause I speak what's on my mind
Guess it's easier for you to swallow if I sat and smiled
When a female fires back
Suddenly big talker don't know how to act
So he does what any little boy would do
Makin' up a few false rumors or two
That for sure is not a man to me, slanderin' names for popularity
It's sad you only get your fame through controversy (so, so sad)
But now it's time for me to come and give you more to say
Chorus:
This is for my girls all around the world (around the world)
Who have come across a man that don't respect your worth
Thinkin' all women should be seen not heard
So what do we do girls, shout louder
Lettin 'em know we're gonna stand our ground
So lift your hands high and wave 'em proud
Take a deep breath and say it loud
Never can, never will
Can't hold us down
Nobody can hold us down
Nobody can hold us down
Nobody can hold us down
Never can, never will
So, what, am I not supposed to say what I'm saying?
Are you offended with the message I'm bringin'?
Call me whatever 'cause your words don't mean a thing
Guess you ain't even a man enough to handle what I sing
If you look back in history it's a common double standard of society
The guy gets all the glory the more he can score
While the girl can do the same and yet you call her a whore
I don't understand why it's okay,
The guy can get away with it, the girl gets named
All my ladies come together and make a change
And start a new beginning for us, everybody sing
Chorus:
This is for my girls all around the world (around the world)
Who have come across a man
That don't respect your worth (repect your worth)
Thinkin' all women should be seen not heard
(can't get rid of us)
So what do we do girls, shout louder
Lettin 'em know we're gonna stand our ground
(we're standing our ground this time)
So lift your hands high and wave 'em proud
Take a deep breath and say it loud
Never can, never will
Can't hold us down
Lil' Kim:
Here's something I just can't understand
If the guy have three girls then he's the man
He can even give her some head, or sex her off
But if a girl do the same, she's a whore
But the tables about to turn
I bet my fame on it
Cats take my ideas, and put their name on it
It's aight though, you can't hold me down
I got to keep on moving
To my girls to their man who be trying to mac
Do it right back to him and let that be that
You need to let him know that his game is whack
And Lil' Kim and Christina Aguilera got yo back
You're just a little boy
Think you're so cute, so coy
You must talk so big to make up for smaller things
You're just a little boy
All you do is annoy
You must talk so big to make up for smaller things
(This is for my girls)
This is for my girls all around the world
Who have come across a man that don't respect your worth
Thinkin' all women should be seen not heard
So what do we do girls, shout louder
Lettin 'em know we're gonna stand our ground (stand our ground)
So lift your hands high and wave 'em proud
Take a deep breath and say it loud
Never can, never will
Can't hold us down
X2
Uh Oh, Uh Oh
Uh, can't hold us down
Lil Kim:
Yeah, we here, we back again, yeah,
Lil Kim and Christina Aguilera