Thursday, January 11, 2007
HELLO! back again for another update. well, got a task to do. Mmm. Ritz asked me this:
- ritz - 37.5°C Do I look like I've got "JOB VACANCY!!" plastered all over my face? says:
heyy. been reading your blog the past few days and noticed there was an entry about love and infatuation. and i think i could use some inputs on this. doesn't matter if you can come up with one but i tried, haha! need some answers X_X
Just a thought: does absence make the heart grow fonder or does it make one forget? It's something that I've been pondering about lately and I haven't managed to come to any conclusion yet.
well, here's what i think. Actually, i don't have much to say cause most of this depends on the person herself. Absence does work both ways.
It can bring u and that person closer together cause both of u will start missing each other. This also helps to teach u two to treasure each other more. Mmm. At first it will be really hard and u will definitely have that strong spasms of longing-ness for the person. U will want to be with that person every single minute of the day and Smses do help in easing it.
But if the time apart from each other drags too long, it might work on the negative side too. Slowly, the other party will just move on with his/her life.
However, if the feeling do fade off after some time, i guess it will be more of infatuation than love. Like what i said in my previous entry, love can withstand long distance relationships. so if u really love the person a lot, u wouldn't even forget the person that easily. Days, weeks, months and even years may pass by but the feeling for that person will not change.
The bottom line is absence do make the heart grow fonder but it really come down to how much u love that person too. yup yup!
OHOH! Michael! i heard that the results will be out by the 27th this month. i'm not sure if it is true but since u will be here in Singapore, do u want to come to my school with me to collect my results? my friends seems keen on meeting u, i think. Lol.
