Tuesday, December 19, 2006
ok, I've been thinking a lot lately. some people come to me with problems hoping I'm able to solve them. but my dears, i'm not God. all i can do is just to give u some advices. all i have is a pair of comforting arms to hug u with and a shoulder for u to absorb ur tears.anyway, what i want to say is this : parents, do not do things to hurt your children.
you are responsible for your own marriage.
please don't let your child be a victim of what i would call, "sexual pleasures".
your children did not play a part to get the two of you together.
it was your own will to say "i do",
your own will to propose.
so why are children the ones hurt in the end?
so what if the marriage gave you the position to control over your kids?
to hell with traditions whereby children must have respect to their parents even though they're mistreated.
that does not give you the right to mistreat them.
they are human being with feelings and emotions.
they are just another piece of you and your spouse.
do you not feel the pain?
its such a selfish act.
be responsible. whatever you do, the cause and effect can sometimes never be resolved.
because, the hurt had already been done permanently.
