Tuesday, December 19, 2006
hey, sorry to those who receive sms from me which are meant for others. sorry. my previous phone screwed up and my bill is going to explode real mad. BAA BOOOOM! haha. anyway, u're not gona have these kinda sms-es anymore cuz i've changed my phone! hooray! haha. anyway, have been watching "the tyra's show" lately. Tyra Banks discussed this topic once in her show : Does attractiveness get u further? do people treat u better just cuz u're gd looking?u're probably gona slap me cuz what i'm gona say is rather sexist. but well, let's carry on.in the show, a pair of twin were present. they are beautiful, features which any girl would wish to have. but were they happy? no.Tyra described being beautiful is a "curse". i think it does not necessarily a be "curse". but it has its negatives and it has its positives. Of course the positives outweigh the negatives.those twin really open my eyes. i've never really thought that women like them would be upset cuz of their beauty. It was horrible how those twins were treated. sometimes being cute and pretty can lead to bads things. Some people will try to get you to do things you don't want to, just because you are attractive. yes, u caught what i meant, stalking them, rape, nude photo shots, etc, etc. some girls get picked on cuz they are pretty. people tend to label them as people who think they're a "big shot". if u wish u're better looking then ur current self, think again. some girls who are blessed with great looks sometimes wish they aren't born that way. Beauty comes with rude comments, jealous friends, sometimes including vain/conceited, but its got its perks. i'll elaborate on that further later.Its a shame that the world today only looks on the outside and not how people are on the inside. looks really does matter to some people. i believe that we should not go by how someone looks but how someone acts or behaves with other people. that will really shows the true beauty of a person. but people don't seem to understand this and its indeed very sad.but i'm just sitting on the fence for this matter.yes, I do think people who are attractive do get further and its crazy by how much! I know it's sad to say that but it's true. If you are attractive, people notice you more. It can go both ways, it just depends. i have a friend, she is gorgeous! She gets attention ALL the time and everyone loves her, not because of her personality but because if her popularity. i'm happy for her. at least she has a healthy self-esteem and she isn't all blown up by the attention.Sadly, some boys and men these days aren't aware that girls and women with beautiful insides are more precious that girls and women with beautiful outsides. If i could, I'd go up to every sick minded guy and slap him silly. SERIOUSLY! maybe its just me having that "most guys care more on looks" mentality but hey, i've got stories about men who goes for looks and body.and no, i'm not referring to ALL women in general. just a few. the same goes for men. i'm not saying that ALL males are like what i described earlier as there are quite a number decent males i know of. i was only referring to some.
